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Find Out More About What Philippine Ladies Think About Different Relationship
Superstitions
Even in this modern world that we are living,
with all the gadgets and other advancements in science and technology, there are
still some people who like to believe in deep-rooted traditions and local superstitions.
Some people in the Philippines, particularly the elders, still believe in all
these stories and things that other people created. Some Philippine ladies
- especially those who are already thinking of settling down, or have
a serious relationship - also consider some of these superstitions and follow
them stringently. Some male foreigners who have Filipina
girlfriends sometimes have difficulty understanding all these traditional beliefs
and superstitions. Though some ideas are also practiced in other countries, but
there are a lot of beliefs that are only found and practiced in the Philippines. Some
Philippine ladies believe that if they have older female siblings
then they have to let them marry first or at least have boyfriends first. Filipinos
believe that if the younger siblings get hitched first then there is no chance
for the older siblings to find their husbands or tie the knot anymore. And most
people look at this not just as a mere superstition but it is also a kind of respect
to the older members of the family. Some of the
superstitions and rituals that Filipinos believe are also carried out in other
countries just like when a single woman catches a bouquet in a wedding, this only
means one thing and it means she is getting married next or soon. There are also
a lot of wedding practices that the Filipinos share with the rest of the world,
the slicing of the cake, the first dance, and other pre-wedding and post-wedding
rituals. One that is very common is not to allow the groom see his bride wearing
the wedding gown before the wedding. Another superstition
that Filipinos follow is that those who are still single never sit at the head
of the table during meals or they will never marry. This is a very old Filipino
superstition. Some people would find these practices unreasonable
and outrageous. They just do not see the logic behind all these practices. But
why are there still so many people who are following and doing all these traditions
and superstitions? A lot of people would say, especially those Philippine
ladies, that there is actually nothing wrong if they follow some of these
superstitions and old practices. There is no harm done and there is technically
nothing wrong with it. For some they treat it as something that is interesting
to do and nothing else. Some Filipinos, particularly the
women, also believe in card reading and palmistry. And it is actually not hard
to find one if you want to know about your future and other questions that you
have about the past. These are also traditions that are put into practice in other
countries. Philippine ladies whether
they believe in all of these traditional practices and rituals or not, they are
one in saying that, they are just doing all these for the sake of tradition. Again
as long as there is no harm done, then why not preserve such customs and traditions?
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