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Some Common Misconceptions About Dating In The Philippines
People from other countries, particularly the
men, think that the Philippines being a Third World country and situated in Asia
is a country that is still very conservative and progressing slowly. They think
that this applies to all areas even dating in the Philippines.
The Philippines is actually a very religious country,
people go to church every Sunday to listen to the holy mass and say grace before
every meal. The Philippines is also very rich in tradition and have some beliefs
that are deeply embedded in their culture. But Filipinos are known to be very
resilient and adaptable and through time people have learned to become accustomed
to the way of the world and get a feel for the changing times. Dating
in the Philippines is one thing that has seen a number of changes over
the years. But there are still a lot of common misconceptions regarding dating
and boyfriend-girlfriend relationships up until now. People from other countries
still think that Filipinos are still very old-fashioned when it comes to relationships
and Filipinas are still very naïve and submissive. Though
some of these are true and some people are all these but a lot of Filipinos are
already becoming very open-minded when it comes to a lot of things. Young people
especially are very different now, maybe because of the advancements in technology,
the Internet and other gadgets plus the influence of the media to their very young
minds. Dating in the Philippines is not
like what it used to be a decade ago. A lot of changes already took place and
people are catching up. Though some old people still insist of doing it the traditional
way things just do not always happen the way they want it to happen. Nowadays
there are a lot of Filipinos who search for love online or through other means
possible. Filipinos, both men and women, widen their horizon through opening their
doors to meeting people from other countries. They already welcome the possibility
of meeting the man or woman of their dreams online and eventually meeting someday
and building a family. Another common misconception that
other people have about courtship in the Philippines is especially centered to
the women. Some people think that women in the Philippines are very inexperienced
and slow on the uptake. Most people get the wrong impression about Filipinas being
subdued and good-natured, they think Filipinas do not know anything that is why
they are quiet and they are just gentle because they lack confidence and do not
have a sense of worth. These are all misinterpretations. Dating
in the Philippines is also sometimes being viewed as Filipinas just taking
advantage of the money and all the luxury that men from other countries could
give. Sadly though there are some women who are guilty as charged but this is
something that does not only happen in the Philippines. People just sometimes
generalize things and label the whole country as this and that when in truth only
a few people are doing such things. |