The Practicalities Of Filipina Love
The world is facing a very serious financial crisis these days and the places that are most affected are those Third World countries. And unfortunately the Philippines, is considered one of the countries that is struggling and financially powerless. So, what happened to Filipina love? Why is it in question nowadays?
Love is something that is supposed to be pure and sincere. Filipinas are known to be the kind of people who surrender everything during marriage and would give up everything for the family and the people she loves.
Filipinas are willing to turn their backs on their career and a very promising future to take good care of their growing family. They love to take care of their husbands and the kids, tend the house and do other household chores with pride in their hearts and with a genuine smile on their face.
The Filipina love is indisputable and pure. They are true to their wedding vows and stick to their husbands even in the most trying times.
A Filipina love said to be martyr and full of sacrifices. This is true in so many different ways. There are a lot of women, married women, who would just confine herself inside the house and just do everything to make the home as comfortable as possible. Filipina married women want to be always at home when their husbands come home from work and pick the kids up at school. They also love cooking for the family and making sure that everything they need is answered. All of these things are the responsibilities that they are willing to take even if it means forever.
But there are a lot of women now who leave the family even the kids and go overseas to work. Kids are just left with a nanny or their grandparents so that both parents can work and look after the family.
Half of the population believes that this kind of set-up and way of living affect the children big time. The effects may not be visible right now, but according to some people the effects of parents leaving their kids would slowly manifest when they are in their teens. Many believe that this kind of arrangement would also take a toll on the relationship and the union of the husbands and wives.
Even though this is what is happening now, there are still a lot of people who believe that love is still alive it just became more practical nowadays. There could be a new set-up but the women are just doing all these things are still for the family and most people believe that it is still the women who are suffering and sacrificing more. Leaving the family behind is something that is almost unthinkable for most Filipinas, but this is Filipina love in all its essence. This kind of trait is something that men from other countries really admire about Filipinas, that is why more and more male foreigners who prefer Filipinas than other women from other countries.
Traditionally, Filipino men before asking for the hand of the woman they are going to marry or their Filipina bride, serve the family first by doing some household chores like chopping woods, scrubbing the floor, fixing the roof, do some plumbing, tending the farm, milking the cows and things like these. Of course this is not done anymore. We are already in the 21st century and there are other methods of doing things and wooing women.
After being under the Spanish conquerors for three centuries, three decades and three years came the Americans who took control of the Philippines for a number of years and it just ended when the Second World War came about and the Japanese regime took over and triumphed over the Filipinos. But aside from these three big captors came a lot of people from different backgrounds and ethnicities. And it is because of all these that Filipino Ladies have very exotic and exceptional beauty.
Who said wooing is ancient history? In the Philippines, Filipino women still melt at the thought of a man wooing a woman, especially if they are the one being wooed. Even though how much women declare that they are already modern women and dislike being old-fashioned, but deep in their hearts a small voice is still hoping for someone to woo her and sweep her off her feet.
If you fall in love with a Filipina then you must know the way to her heart. Ever since Filipina girls are known to be very conservative and very religious, they can also be very secretive especially when it comes to relationships and the matters of the heart. This is actually a result of the Philippines being a predominantly Catholic country where people as young as they could remember are already encouraged by their parents, particularly Filipino mothers, to go to church every Sunday to attend the holy mass and also during special occasions like Christmas, New Year and the like.
Virginity used to be associated with life itself for Filipina girls and women. You only lose it to your husband and you do not lose it before marriage. The moment a Filipina breaches this standard, it would be like virtual death for her. Losing virginity at the wrong time and letting people know it are an affront to family pride more than they offend personal well being.
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